Words and photos by Daniella Dogbe
Talking about sexually transmitted infections (STIs) can feel awkward, intimidating or even a little scary. There’s lots of stigma, plenty of misinformation and of course, a natural fear of the unknown.
But the truth is, STIs are increasingly common – the top ten boroughs in England with the highest rates of sexually transmitted infections are all in London, according to the Evening Standard. Last year, Islington was one of the boroughs with the highest rate of STIs.

So why don’t we talk about them more? Maybe you’ve had questions but felt too embarrassed to ask. Maybe you’re worried about judgement or don’t know where to start. This article is here to inform you.
From symptoms, testing, treatment and prevention, we’re breaking down everything you need to know about STIs without the shame, confusion or unnecessary panic.
What are the most common symptoms?
Some STIs like chlamydia are asymptomatic (meaning there are no symptoms) however, some Sexually-transmitted infections share symptoms. These can include:
- Discharge that’s not normal for you, if it is greenish, cloudy, watery or grey. Even if you’re not sure, it’s worth a check!
- Pain in the lower tummy
- Bleeding after sex
- A burning feeling when you pee
- Burning or itching around your genitals.
If you have any of these symptoms or you just want to get tested, visit your nearest clinic or you can even self test at home.
How often should I get tested and where should I go?

It’s good practice to test regularly, after each new partner if you have multiple partners, or annually even in monogamous relationships.
The testing process is nothing to the scared of, here’s the methods they may test you with;
- A nurse or you simply take a cotton swab and collect your sample from your mouth, genitals or anus.
- A sample of your pee maybe used to test for chlamydia or gonorrhoea where your urine is collected in a container.
- Blood samples are taken to test for HIV, syphilis and some other STIs, and this is done by a small prick to your finger to collect blood. If you’re doing it yourself and you’re squeamish, ask a friend or partner to do it for you.
After this, your testing is done. Your tests will be sent to a lab to look at, and you will receive your results within a few days or a week or two.
Here’s where you can find a clinic nearest to you – or you can test at home.
What happens if I test positive?
If you test positive, you will be advised and receive treatment, which for many infections – not HIV – is typically a single dose or course of antibiotics that lasts 1-2 weeks, or other medication.
Inform your partner(s) during this time.
Remember, that using protection (a condom/barrier method) helps prevent the spread of STIs to avoid reinfecting yourself or your partner or refrain from having sex until your treatment is finished.
Be aware that for STIs like chlamydia, after your course of treatment is finished make sure to still use protection as you’re still infectious a week after.

Are Holloway residents testing and staying informed? We asked the public if they get tested regularly, and here’s what they had to say:
While these answers show that regular testing is important, it’s clear that there’s still some fear and confusion around the subject. If you’re in a similar situation, just know that it’s perfectly normal to feel unsure. The most important thing is to take action, ask questions, and get tested when you need to.
What is PrEP?
PrEP (Pre-Exposure Prophylaxis) is a daily pill that helps prevent HIV in people at high risk. When taken consistently, it reduces the risk of HIV by up to 99%. It’s recommended for individuals with higher risk factors, such as those with HIV-positive partners or those who don’t use condoms consistently.
Regular check-ups and HIV testing are needed while on PrEP. Talk to your healthcare provider to see if it’s right for you.

Talking about STIs and sexual health doesn’t have to be awkward or intimidating. The more we talk openly and honestly, the easier it becomes to break the stigma and stay informed.
Remember, testing is quick, easy, and confidential, and it’s an essential part of maintaining a healthy sex life. Whether you’re in a relationship or not, regular testing can help protect you and your partners, ensuring everyone stays healthy and happy.
So, don’t wait for symptoms to show up. Be proactive and get tested—it could make all the difference.
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